Unfortunately, there’s still hoops to jump through to be a foster parent, many of which are subjective assessments. It’s really easy for shitty people to pretend to be whatever the assessment person is looking for when they’re motivated by money and lack morals. It’s a lot harder when you make an effort to be genuine and the assessment person doesn’t like some way in which you don’t match the mold they’re wanting. I know a couple who tried to jump through the hoops to adopt a 16yo queer kid. Amazing parents. The person who interviewed them was very conservative Christian and didn’t like that they planned to respect the kid’s identity. Needless to say, they didn’t get approved as foster parents.
Unfortunately, there’s still hoops to jump through to be a foster parent, many of which are subjective assessments. It’s really easy for shitty people to pretend to be whatever the assessment person is looking for when they’re motivated by money and lack morals. It’s a lot harder when you make an effort to be genuine and the assessment person doesn’t like some way in which you don’t match the mold they’re wanting. I know a couple who tried to jump through the hoops to adopt a 16yo queer kid. Amazing parents. The person who interviewed them was very conservative Christian and didn’t like that they planned to respect the kid’s identity. Needless to say, they didn’t get approved as foster parents.