

Have you tried live booting another distro?
Maybe the new KDE Linux is a good canditate. It comes with the same DE and has the newest testing versions of everything and might have a bugfix included. Also it’s arch based so there might be some default config that is different compared to what comes with debian.
Don’t fuck with arch packages. Trying to resolve and maintain that dependency hell will be an unworkable nightmare.
If you only need libfdk-aac occasionally you can go with a docker container https://hub.docker.com/r/jrottenberg/ffmpeg
Example:
docker run -it --rm \ -v "$PWD:/data" \ jrottenberg/ffmpeg:snapshot-scratch \ -i /data/input.mp4 -c:a libfdk_aac /data/output.m4a